First, it is important to identify and understand what exactly an ism is. Derman-Sparks & Edwards (2010) define isms as "the many forms of institutionalized prejudice and discrimination based on social identities such as ability/disability, culture/ethnicity, economic class, gender, sexual orientation, racial identity, and others. (The resultant isms are ableism, ethnocentrism, classism, sexism, racism, and the like)" (p. xii). In my experiences, I could relate most to ableism and sexism in my personal and professional life. These two isms are ones that make me feel as if I have to constantly prove myself, always pushing myself to a higher level and becoming disappointed if I feel things did not go according to plan, as if I am going to be judged based on such things. For example, I have always been treated indifferently by certain male individuals I encounter because I am a sports fanatic which translates into playing, watching, and knowing a good deal of information about sports, albeit more than such male individuals at times. Due to this, I have been called "a lesbian", treated as if I do not know what I am talking about because "I am just a woman", or expected to "get hurt" or "not keep up" with the guys when playing a sport for fun. This is extremely frustrating and causes me to become overly eager and sometimes very competitive to prove them wrong, to prove I can handle it, I know what I am saying, and it is even better because I AM A WOMAN. This would be an example of sexism or gender bias I have encountered on a personal level.
Another example of such isms I have experienced could be in the work place. I have always been and always will be a team player. I even utilize a sports and teamwork theme in my fourth grade classroom to encourage acceptance, support, working together, and learning from our "wins and losses" so to speak. Therefore, I embrace every moment in school with my co-workers as chances to work together and support each other. It is very unnerving and challenging when this is not reciprocated or necessarily welcomed. For instance, I strive to learn more and do better with each passing day. I am always trying to find new and exciting ways to connect and work with the kids on the content they need to learn. I try to incorporate technology and address all kinds of learners through a variety of activities. This year, I was considered "the veteran teacher" as I am in my 4th year teaching 4th grade and am trying my best to reach out to my counter parts who are a second year teacher in fourth grade and a first year teacher in fourth grade in our building (but this teacher has actually been teaching in a variety of grade levels in a variety of states for 10 years). However, at times it is not welcomed, in which I receive comments of being "an overachiever" or "annoying". It is difficult to swallow as I feel I am trying to help and be a team player, especially when I watch the other two share and work well together. This is challenging and constantly reminds me of my abilities, at times leaving me to doubt myself and if I am doing the right thing. I feel as though this backlash I am receiving is borderline ableism as if my abilities and willingness to learn and help is rejected and seen negatively.
Considering such experiences of isms in my personal and professional life, I would have to think on whether or not this could impact my own interactions with children and families. From my own personal experience and belief, I have always been an individual who will put up with more from others when it is directed at me than if it was directed at someone else. In other words, I have always been the bystander who will readily stand up for the victim in a situation before I would stand up for myself. This is not to say I do not defend myself, but I am more tolerant of instances happening to me than to others. Therefore, I think I would, especially with all of the learning and knowledge gained in regards to anti-bias education over the past courses, be very observant and readily acknowledge and broach the subject as issues arise within my classroom. Learning about anti-bias education has taught me to avoid the "sweep it under the rug technique" of saying "that is not nice, apologize" and rather use the discussion technique of saying "let's think about this for a minute. Why did you say that? Why do you feel this way? And how does this make you feel when he/she says it?"
I think these experiences in my own life would help to remind me to focus on the possibility of isms and prejudice arising in the classroom or between children and families and myself. However, it could also implicate that I will be looking out or responding differently to the similar experiences (such as sexism or ableism) I have had because it is a sensitive subject for me and I understand how it feels to be in such situations. If that is the case, I am not properly serving all children and families with equitable educational opportunities; rather I am shortchanging some and supporting others. This is unacceptable and could be extremely detrimental to the children and families I am working with. All situations need to be handled with proper anti-bias educational practices and responses. As educators, in order to properly utilize anti-bias education and provide equitable opportunities for all children and families, we must keep in mind that "when teachers welcome these conflicts as an opportunity to learn with and from others, the positive connections and respect that can result are long-lasting and strong" (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010, p. 30).
In order to continue on this journey of anti-bias education, every individual in this program and in education as a whole needs to examine and analyze our beliefs, perspectives, biases, and prejudices. Our experiences tend to give us a tainted outlook on the world and as an educator this could be detrimental to the children and families you work with on a daily basis. While they have done nothing to act out an ism against you, you could be unconsciously acting out and holding bias against them for something they have said, done, or believe in. This cannot be and the only way to change is to analyze your own experiences and perspectives on this anti-bias education journey. When working in the field of education, most will agree they they believe in the following words: "One of the finest hopes we can have for our children is to give them a just world - a world that recognizes all people for the unique, fully human beings they are; a world where every child has equal access to the opportunities to become all he or she can be" (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010, p. 30). Without this hope, we will not succeed. Without this opportunity to truly understand ourselves to provide a better opportunity for them, we will not have hope. It is all connected.
References:
Derman-Sparks, L., & Edwards, J. O.
(2010). Anti-bias education for young children and ourselves.
Washington, DC: National Association for the Education of Young Children
(NAEYC).